Why you should never trust any girl that is a virgin



I met uju in the year 2007 at ibadan the capital of oyo state, I am from enugu state and uju is from enugu state as wel.. By then she was seventeen years of age while I was twenty four years. uju  fair in complexion, average in height, she is very good to behold.. I mean very beautiful that she cant walk to ur direction without u looking back at her or try to approach her…
A beautiful girl who does not need to wear an expensive cloth or Robb the best cream to show her beauty.. This girl is naturally beautiful.
I was sitting at my working place when I saw her with her mother carrying vegetables out of the farm to the market.. I  never knew she was an igbo girl until I spoked igbo language with her mother and she responded.. I was wondering in my mind how can a beautiful girl like this be so obedient to always follows her parents to the farm… I was touched with her hardwork and obedience.. I told my self that this is a good wife to be if possibly she accept me..
And she was still in secondary school then.. She will always come in front of my working place to take a commercial vehicle to her school after she might have come back from the market where she always supplies their customers vegetables.. I was always Impressed by her attitude.. I have no choice but to develop a friendship with her.. Whenever she is waiting for a commercial vehicle to go to school I will always chat with her and gave her money for her transportation…
We became good friends to the extend that she will always branch to my working place whenever she is going to farm or school. So I was always happy whenever we are together.. Then I decided that is time to let the cat out of the bag.I mean to tell her how much I love  her.. As usual she dashed to my working place on her way back from farm.. I can see that she was very tired and thirsty.. I bought her a cold and chilled bottle water and a soft drink.. And left her alone in my working place, at least to give her some freedom, after a while I came back to her by then she was already through and were relaxing… She said Philip (o see oo) in Yoruba language, meaning Philip thank you ooo.. Because she speaks Yoruba language fluently… I called her uju, she said yes, any problem? I said no problem, but the problem is that I love you so much.. That I have thinking on how to tell you but I guess this is the right time..
She was silent for a while, I was wondering what she was thinking.. Later on she raised her head and and said she has heard what I said but I should give her sometime to think about it.. I said Okey… She left on that faithful day.. After some days I called her again to ask how far? She said that she has accepted, I was very very happy.. We exchanged contact on that day.. I always calls her to know where she was and how safe she was… After some months I invited her to my house which she refused telling me that she don’t visit a single man.. I tried to confused her but to no avail.. I loved her so much so I kept on with her.. It’s Christmas and I asked her that she must come to know where I am staying ‘she agreed and told me that she will not be coming alone but with her sister, I said no problem till then.. On the faithful day she came with her sister as she said.. On that day a photographer came to our house and me and my brothers wanted to take some pictures.. So I asked her to come so as we should take the pictures together, she refused and later agreed.. We tooked the pictures together and I asked her to come and take with me alone.. She refused again and said that even if she will take the picture alone with me that I should not hold her with my arms.. I was embarrassed in the presence of my friends and brothers.. The photographer has to interven before we could took the pictures on that day..
Christmas has come and gone… We continued from where we stopped.. After some months I invited her her on one Sunday day.. Though I have inviting her several times without numbers but she will always said she will come but at the end it becomes a story.. So she came on that Sunday day.. I entertained her as usual.. But this girl will not allow me to touch her or hug her not talkless of a kiss.. I asked her why is she putting me to all these stress.. She said she was a Virgin and she will not romance or have sex with any man who is not married to her.. I told her that my aim is to marry you only if you can marry me.. She said until she’s through with her studies and have something doing.. That if we should continue I should never ask her for sex or romance.. That she is determine to keep it till on her wedding day.. I can’t resist her beauty to disagree with her.. I said Okey.. I will stick with you till we get married… So we kept on, no hug, no sex, no kissing,After a year of courtship I started noticing some things.. I started seeing romantic message in her phone… Whenever I confronted her she will said it’s a friend and that he has been asking her out which she refused.. I said Okey because I trusted her and I am convinced that she can’t date him because the boy is a Yoruba and a Muslim faithful…Tunde by name… I kept on with her with trust and confidence…But the guy kept sending her romantic text messages almost every day.. I was worried  and I called her again to ask her what was going on.. She told me she doesn’t love the guy that she is only interested in his money which he always spent on her.. And that I am the only one she love and I should not be putting my mind into negative things.. That is not what I think and that she knew what she’s doing.. The boy father owns a petrol filling station and I suspect it’s because of the money she getting from him… And as a business man who I am I am also taking good care of her making sure she doesn’t lack much… After three years of courtship I started noticing some changes in her.. I am convinced she’s no longer a Virgin.. But when ever I tried to make a romantic move towards her she will start to cry telling me that I don’t love her.. I will burry my sexual urges and apologize as well.. Without knowing that my Yoruba rival has disvirgind her and have been making love to her almost every day.. And she even goes there to sleep over night.. She will tell her parents that she was going outing and that she will be back on Monday she always left on Saturdays.. Because she learned fashion designer and certring..
I asked her again what is going on.. She kept denying but I have had many witnesses.. One day she gave her phone to charge for her I took it home and after I have charged it for her though she removed her sim card but I inserted my own sim card in it guess what I saw… Hmmmnmm.. I saw how they have been exchanging sex messages, the worst I saw was were her friend was prescribing a drug of abortion for her incase the one she took never worked fine.. To be sure of what I saw I showed my friends who are pharmacies and they Confirmed it’s for abortion.. But I never told them the person involved.
I was like a dead man walking because I was in deep thought.. I hardly sleep or eat to my satisfaction.. Her parents knew me very well because I use to go to their house.. They liked me so much and also wanted us to get married.. But this girl has changed totally, she doesn’t have any fear in me again to the extend that whenever she was at the boy house he uses his number to call me.. It became Clear to me that I have lost in her dairy.. I was always in depression because is like the boat I entered has stopd in the middle of a river.. But I loved this girl so much and she is very hard to resist.. I called her again for a heart to heart discussion.. I told her that my love for you it’s not because of your virginity that even though you are not longer a Virgin I am ready to marry u.
.Her reply was suspicious but I  rea assured her of my love for her… I understands that the boy has poison her mind to the extend that the boy was sending her to extort money from me.. I started going to a spiritualist but I was told that the boy in question has charmed her..
I knew it because the family of the boy are known for using charms for power and some other things… I tried to get her out but my efforts were not enough..I was worried about what people will say because many of my friends and neighbors has known her as my own fiance but they don’t know that I have not for once climbed her or even a kiss.. The boy got her pregnant again and this time they tried an abortion but the pregnancy refused to go down.. So they have no choice but to leave it.. People started congratulating that my fiance is pregnant.. I smiled and left their presence because they don’t know the type of relationship we were into.. The boy parents came to their house to ask her hand in marriage but the parents refused that they can not give their daughter to a Yoruba man.. And that she will only marry an igbo man.. The boy parents left in anger with their wines and colanuts.. The following day the girl packed her load and escaped from her house to the boy apartment.. Her parents told me that they were not in support and will never be in support of it and that all her senior brother’s and sisters are also against her..
When she discovered that none of her family members are in support and the parents are becoming worried as well so they ask her to go back to her parents house as they have refused to give u to us for marriage.. The girl came back to her parents ashamed.. People were neglecting her due to her actions especially towards me.. After nine months she gave birth to a baby girl.. But the boy and his parents never come to claim their child.. She was carrying the child up and down until her parents sent her back to the village in enugu state.. Though she calls me on phone till today to apologize but I told her I have forgiven her but the pains she caused me shall never be forgotten and that she will suffer it.. She said I should When she discovered that none of her family members are in support and the parents are becoming worried aswel so they ask her to go back to her parents house as they have refused to give u to us for marriage.. The girl came back to her parents.. She was so ashamed of her self.. People were neglecting her due to her actions especially towards me.. After nine months she gave birth to a baby girl.. But the boy and his parents never come to claim their child.. She was carrying the child up and down until her parents sent her back to the village in Enugu state.. Though she calls me on phone till today to apologize but I told her I have forgiven her but the pains she caused me shall never be forgotten and that she will suffer it.. She said I should bless her, I said no that she shall reap what she has sown.


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