5. You can’t make her feel special.
If the woman is already talking to you, but you see that with each passing moment, she’s losing interest, learn that rejection is about to hit you. If this happens, you need to think about things. Were you a total assh*le in your words or actions? Did you give her enough attention? Did you ask her questions about herself? Did you listen to her and genuinely show interest?
Believe me, the success of your approach is vastly influenced by your ability to make her feel special. She is not solely interested in learning about you. It is human nature. If you make a person feel good, he or she will let his or her guard down. Make her feel interesting and appealing, and she will be interested and attracted to you.
Does this happen because of the mere desire to find out why somebody else likes us? Is it a chemical reaction? Who knows. Frankly, who cares, as long as it works?
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Making a woman feel special is really what it’s all about. If you really master it, the rest is all simply a matter of scenery and timing.
6. You have a bad reputation.
When a negative reputation foresees your intentions, it is hard (and can somehow even be impossible) to show them. This is one of the main reasons addicts of all sorts find it hard to change their lives.
The easy way out of this badly reputed zone is to change your social circle. Find new venues, dare to go out alone and try new approaches.
It’s difficult to truly make a change. Shock these people in a positive way to show you’re not that flabby guy they thought you were. Stay away from alcohol for a while if that’s your thing, and let them see you’re strong. You can better yourself, and you will.
Prove to everyone you have standards, principles and virtues, and that you’re able to pull yourself up from whatever vicious circle you’re in.
7. You’re pushing for a one-night stand.
Letting her know that all you want is to get laid always equals rejection. Here are some things to make approaching her easier:
Make her feel special by showing her you’re interested in her.
Get her interested in you.
Use body language as much as you can.
Read between the lines to figure out if she’s interested in a one-night stand.
Only point out your intentions directly after at least some kissing has happened.
In the end, the essential thing is to turn a negative experience into a positive lesson. Never get stuck on failure. Stay optimistic and adopt the saying, “What doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger.”
The truth is, success is within your power. You just have to put in the effort and go for it. The only way a baby learns how to walk is by learning to rise after each fall.
So, get back on your feet, see what you can improve upon and change your luck with women