8 Ways To Get The Man You Want, Even if You Feel Unlovable
Are you one of those ladies who feel unlovable? Have you
been shamed so many times and you feel a man can never
love you anymore? What are your insecurities?
Do you often look at yourself and wonder if you will ever be in
love? Are you always sad when you see couple hold hands?
How do you feel whenever a friend flaunts her wedding or
engagement and pre-wedding photos on social media?
Do you just sit there and feel bad for yourself, so
downtrodden? Or you just give in to self-pity and begin to hate
everything and everyone?
Perhaps, that will all happen to you, but it is needless to cry.
So, wipe your tears and be brave. Don’t sit down there and
complain; do something about it. Sometimes, you need to do
something radical to achieve your aim. So, that’s something I
want to talk to you about, right now.
How to Get “Your Man” Even When Nobody Wants to Love You
Here is how to get your life back on track so you can attract
that man you truly deserve but wouldn’t come.
.1. Evaluate Yourself
Self-evaluation is the first thing you need to do to get things
right. Look at yourself in the mirror. What do you see? Who do
you see? Be honest, what you see is exactly what you are. Do
you like what you see or not? Chances are you don’t.
This is a moment of self reflection. It is time to tell yourself
the truth. How did you get here? What went wrong? Is it
something you could have done differently? Is it something
you can change?
If you answer those questions with sincerity, you will see why
you’re feeling unlovable. A little soul-searching can do the
Having found an answer to why you find yourself in an
“unlovable” corner, it is time to begin to do things differently. It
is time to live and love. It is time to be happy and feel loved.
It’s time to smile.
.2. Love Yourself
Many ladies don’t even love themselves. They don’t love their
own bodies, their shape, size, skin, complexion, hair and so
on. How do you expect a man to love you when you don’t
even love yourself in the first place?
Self love is the first key to attract others to love you. When
you don’t love yourself, you’ll lose your confidence and begin
to have inferiority complex. You want to be like someone else
when in reality, you can only be you!
Let people be different. Accept and love yourself the way you
are. If you have flesh, carry it about happily loving yourself.
Don’t allow society tell you how you should look.
When you love yourself, you will be confident, bold and brave
to reach out for anything. Be positive about yourself and the
way you look. All those attributes are infectious and can only
help you to attract the right person – the right man. Yes, you
The best decision you can ever make is to love yourself. When
you love yourself, you will feel really good. Your approach to
life will change; and you will put on a more positive attitude.
So, love yourself and enjoy life the way you are. A man will
naturally come your way.
.3. Be Neat and Improve Your Fashion Sense
They say cleanliness is next to godliness. Truth be told, some
girls really put off me by their appearance. First impression
matters, and also try to sustain it. Look after your body; be
clean and dry. Don’t go about wearing a stinky odour.
But simple, but look good. Make sure your hair and cloths are
neat and tidy. This is not saying you should go around half
naked. No! Change your looks without having to break the
bank. Change your hairstyle, look clean and flawless, make a
bold fashion statement.
All these add up to your personality and image. It contributes
to the impression men have about you. No man, especially in
this day, likes a dirty woman. Look fresh and charming, smell
good and you won’t have to feel unlovable again.
.4. Change Location
Travel, go out there and meet new people, see new places and
have a new lease of life. Visit friends and relatives outside
your state; stroll often and be social. Socialize and familiarize
with people and new cultures.
Learn new ways of doing things. This will give you much
needed exposure, reinvigorate you, and most of all, bring you
to meet people who really love and care about you.
.5. Take the Initiative
Most ladies find it difficult to initiate a discussion with a man.
This shouldn’t be the case. Initiate discussions both on social
media and outside of it, without being flirty or desperate. Don’t
be afraid to express yourself, but do so with reservation.
Be open without getting carried away, losing your self worth or
value. Try to make eye contacts with the opposite sex, and
stop wearing the boss lady looks all the time. You don’t have
anything to lose.
Be playful. Look intelligent and smart without being egoistic.
Keep your egos beside you. This is how to attract the right
people to you.
.6. Be Flexible
Don’t be too rigid. Try to adapt to new situations and new
things. Develop interest in other things apart from what you
Flexibility will help you get along with people easily. Always
look at things from two perspectives. Don’t confine yourself to
a corner. Be flexible and easy going.
.7. Maintain a Healthy and Active Lifestyle
Eat healthy and do sports. Exercise yourself regularly. Don’t
stress yourself to look like other people or to have their shape,
but do your best to lead a healthy and active lifestyle.
If you can’t afford the gym, go for a run. If you can’t run, go
for a walk. Watch what you eat. Go swimming every now and
then, or do the kind of sport that you love. Most importantly,
.8. Don’t Be Too Hard on Yourself
Occasionally, you may feel let down one way or the other, but
don’t be too hard on yourself. Forgive and pick yourself up,
and you go again. Stop taking yourself too seriously. Just be
Be happy always and have fun. Remember, life is short. Don’t
dwell on your failures, always look at the bright side of life.
Life is good.
.If you do these, you won’t ever feel unlovable again. Surely,
with a positive attitude and disposition, you will naturally
attract positive people to yourself.
You will not only attract a man that loves you, but you will also
keep him for good. And feel loved ever after.