To be taken seriously,you need to be scarce. If you are always available for dinner dates,road trips and all,he will get bored.He will be thinking about that woman who replies to his messages after weeks and rarely returns his calls.He will always show up for dates with her,give her flowers and show up at her door and not yours.
Wives who have lived with a man for five plus years,have kids with him and lived on a 100 bob budget with the man in campus for a week are allowed to nag.They are allowed to ask a man hard questions like “where is this going?” Or why can’t we vacate every end year.
They are allowed because they have a ring and a man will have sleepless nights about how and when to leave her.On the other hand,a girlfriend has no nagging rights.Asking hard questions and nagging earns one a place among the single,miserable or happy and waiting ladies.
5)Not Assertive enough
As mentioned earlier,a girlfriend needs to be respectful and not a nag.She also needs to be assertive.You need to know what you want always and how best to get it.Most girlfriends are docile and worship men who can’t marry them or treat them well.If you desire a family man or a man who has christian values,you have no business with unsaved men.You shouldn’t suffer “kawaida”men who don’t meet your ideals.Source:Pocket News